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Category: Women’s Lives

New York’s First Grand Costume Ball of 1840

Large group of people dressed in historical costumes and masks dancing in ornate ballroom with chandeliers

In February 1840, New York hosted its first grand masked ball, organised by Henry and Laura Brevoort, captivating society and setting a new standard for extravagant celebrations

Natalie Mayhew Americas, Women's Lives May 31, 2026June 23, 2026 10 Minutes

A Woman of Her Own Making

Catherine Dibben (1850-1934) rose from a poor Hayling Island childhood to running a successful boarding house and inspiring four generations of women

Natalie Mayhew Business, Trades & Professions, England, Women's Lives February 18, 2026June 24, 2026 2 Minutes

Discovering the Missing Mayhew Child

A young woman wearing a coat, scarf, and hat is shown in profile with a low light background of terraced streets at dusk

Lily Violet Dorothy Mayhew (1907–1942) vanished from the records as a baby, only to re-emerge as a young woman whose life was shaped by loss, work, and war

Natalie Mayhew Childhood & Family Life, 🔍 Mysteries & Brick Walls, England, Women's Lives February 13, 2026June 24, 2026 14 Minutes

“Present at the Death”

Charlotte Mayhew (c1816–1899): a silenced life recovered through the records

Natalie Mayhew England, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives January 16, 2026June 24, 2026 9 Minutes

The Good Mother

Leah Ellen Mayo (1847–1927) a young widow, navigated poverty, prejudice, and impossible choices - then reinvented herself to keep her family together

Natalie Mayhew Childhood & Family Life, England, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives June 11, 2025June 24, 2026 19 Minutes

What’s in a name

Julia Lane? (c.1840–1925): Illiterate but resilient, she rose from famine-era Ireland to hardship in London, through her inner strength and determination

Natalie Mayhew 🌐 Migration & Emigration, 🔍 Mysteries & Brick Walls, England, Ireland, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives April 20, 2025June 24, 2026 17 Minutes

The Law According to Mary Elizabeth Blundell

Mary Elizabeth Blundell (née Johnson) (1822-1880): A life of struggle and defiance in Victorian society underscores her resilience and resourcefulness

Natalie Mayhew 👥 Beyond the Family Tree, England, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives April 11, 2025June 24, 2026 11 Minutes

Marriage, Mobility, and Motherhood

Catherine Dibben (1850–1934) navigating army life, delayed motherhood, and domestic service, she developed skills, patience, and resilience that would later shape her career

Natalie Mayhew Domestic Service, England, Women's Lives December 18, 2024June 24, 2026 8 Minutes

Raising Children in a Changing World

Catherine Dibben (1850–1934) gacing displacement and relentless domestic work, she relied on ingenuity, thrift, and endurance to keep her household afloat

Natalie Mayhew Childhood & Family Life, England, Women's Lives December 18, 2024June 24, 2026 5 Minutes

Enterprise, Respectability, and Seaside Tourism

Catherine Dibben (1850–1934) returning to Hayling Island after twenty years, managing a boarding house amidst personal losses and the evolving social landscape of the late 19th century

Natalie Mayhew Business, Trades & Professions, England, Women's Lives December 18, 2024June 24, 2026 8 Minutes

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