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Author: Natalie Mayhew

Originally a London girl, now living in Rochester, Kent. Fascinated by social history and passionate about equality, diversity and inclusion

The Baby Born in an Asylum?

Woman hoeing soil in rocky farmland with baby wrapped on her back near coastline

The hidden story of Mary Ann Cooper and Isaac Dibben: a tale of love, loyalty and endurance in the face of Victorian scandal and the workhouse

Natalie Mayhew ⚕️ Health, Medicine & Mental Health, 🔍 Mysteries & Brick Walls, England, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives June 25, 2026June 26, 2026 6 Minutes

Cracking a 19th Century Cross-Written Letter

A tantalising find in an online archive reveals a family conversation hidden in plain sight for nearly 200 years

Natalie Mayhew Childhood & Family Life, 🌐 Migration & Emigration, 🔍 Mysteries & Brick Walls, England, Netherlands, New York June 16, 2026June 24, 2026 18 Minutes

The Brevoort Family Commonplace Book

Wooden desk in a vintage study with books, quill, handwritten papers, and candle

A beautifully illustrated 1837 commonplace book kept by the Brevoort children reveals their distinct personalities, youthful ambitions, and family tragedies

Natalie Mayhew Childhood & Family Life, 🌐 Migration & Emigration, France, New York June 6, 2026June 24, 2026 9 Minutes

New York’s First Grand Costume Ball of 1840

Large group of people dressed in historical costumes and masks dancing in ornate ballroom with chandeliers

In February 1840, New York hosted its first grand masked ball, organised by Henry and Laura Brevoort, captivating society and setting a new standard for extravagant celebrations

Natalie Mayhew Americas, Women's Lives May 31, 2026June 23, 2026 10 Minutes

One Photograph, Four Generations

Two men in early 20th century clothing sitting on a vintage motorcycle by a waterfront with people and benches in the background

One faded photograph of a 1920s motorcycle outing transformed my understanding of a grandfather I had known only as a bitter old man

Natalie Mayhew Art, Sport & Performance, Childhood & Family Life, England May 14, 2026June 24, 2026 4 Minutes

Poor Cottages in the Wilderness

Pioneer couple with baby standing in front of unfinished log cabin under construction

John Coolidge (1604–1691) left Cambridgeshire in 1630 to help establish the Puritan settlement of Watertown in early colonial Massachusetts

Natalie Mayhew 🌐 Migration & Emigration, New England, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Religion & Social Reform May 11, 2026June 24, 2026 12 Minutes

Each Name a Story: The Lives Behind a Forgotten War Memorial – Part 2

World War II memorial plaque with text listing names and military branches, titled 1939 They Served 1945 We Will Remember Them

Fifteen young men, lost too soon, their names rediscovered on a forgotten Second World War memorial in Rochester - each one a life, a story, and a promise to remember.

Natalie Mayhew Rochester, Chatham and Gillingham Gas Company Roll of Honour (1939-1945) April 16, 2026April 16, 2026 3 Minutes

Understanding PTSD Through Ted Mayhew’s Story

A FamilyHistories podcast explores Ted Mayhew's experiences as a POW and the lasting effects of trauma, featuring insights from Prof. Walter Busuttil on veterans' mental health

Natalie Mayhew ⚕️ Health, Medicine & Mental Health, Second World War March 20, 2026June 24, 2026 1 Minute

A Life Shaped by War – and Peace

Henry Baynes (1785-1844): A Waterloo artillery officer who survived war, wounds, and service abroad - yet a small act of kindness in 1834 reveals the man behind the medals

Natalie Mayhew Continental Europe, Earlier Conflicts March 18, 2026June 24, 2026 5 Minutes

A Woman of Her Own Making

Catherine Dibben (1850-1934) rose from a poor Hayling Island childhood to running a successful boarding house and inspiring four generations of women

Natalie Mayhew Business, Trades & Professions, England, Women's Lives February 18, 2026June 24, 2026 2 Minutes

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