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Author: Natalie Mayhew

Originally a London girl, now living in Rochester, Kent. Fascinated by social history and passionate about equality, diversity and inclusion

The Weight of Silence

A detour through Staffordshire leads to a profound encounter with history, humanity, and remembrance at the National Memorial Arboretum.

Natalie Mayhew England, Recollections January 5, 2026June 24, 2026 4 Minutes

Each Name a Story: The Lives Behind a Forgotten War Memorial

Fifteen young men, lost too soon, their names rediscovered from a forgotten Second World War memorial in Rochester. These are stories of courage, sacrifice, and the people behind the names

Natalie Mayhew 👥 Beyond the Family Tree, England, Kent Electric Power Co Roll Of Honour (1939-1945) October 17, 2025June 24, 2026 2 Minutes

Luck of the Irish

Joseph Twohey (c1838–1913) an Irish-born soldier whose career spanned Crimea, India, and near-miraculous survival, honoured with Hayling’s first military funeral

Natalie Mayhew 🌐 Migration & Emigration, Earlier Conflicts, England, Ireland October 3, 2025June 24, 2026 5 Minutes

A Ruptured Life

James Twohey (1794-1866) an Irishman who served with the British Army and endured hardship in India before being discharged through injury

Natalie Mayhew Asia & Pacific, 🌐 Migration & Emigration, Earlier Conflicts, Ireland July 16, 2025June 24, 2026 7 Minutes

A ‘desperate state of things’

Alexander Cameron Brock (1855-1898) a forgotten family story, uncovered through hospital archives, reveals the quiet tragedy of a Victorian doctor lost to mental illness

Natalie Mayhew ⚕️ Health, Medicine & Mental Health, Business, Trades & Professions, England July 4, 2025June 24, 2026 12 Minutes

The Good Mother

Leah Ellen Mayo (1847–1927) a young widow, navigated poverty, prejudice, and impossible choices - then reinvented herself to keep her family together

Natalie Mayhew Childhood & Family Life, England, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives June 11, 2025June 26, 2026 19 Minutes

A Voyage of Controversy

Black and white photograph of British minesweeper HMS Pickle during service in WW2. The ship is all dressed up with flags and members of the crew line the deck

Peter Poulton (1925–2004) sailed aboard HMS Pickle during the historic 1946 voyage that marked the end of Sarawak’s White Rajahs

Natalie Mayhew Asia & Pacific, 👥 Beyond the Family Tree, Seafaring & the Navy, Second World War June 4, 2025June 24, 2026 11 Minutes

Witness to surrender: Far East 1945-46

Peter Poulton (1925-2004) left behind photographs and letters that illuminate his wartime experiences in the Far East during and after World War II

Natalie Mayhew Asia & Pacific, 👥 Beyond the Family Tree, Seafaring & the Navy, Second World War May 16, 2025June 24, 2026 4 Minutes

Still thinking of you: letters after VE Day

Peter Poulton (1925-2004) was on active service in the Far East as the West celebrated VE Day 1945. Family letters reflect joy, longing, and ongoing war concerns

Natalie Mayhew Asia & Pacific, 👥 Beyond the Family Tree, Seafaring & the Navy, Second World War May 6, 2025June 24, 2026 4 Minutes

What’s in a name

Julia Lane? (c.1840–1925): Illiterate but resilient, she rose from famine-era Ireland to hardship in London, through her inner strength and determination

Natalie Mayhew 🌐 Migration & Emigration, 🔍 Mysteries & Brick Walls, England, Ireland, Poverty, Hardship & Resilience, Women's Lives April 20, 2025June 24, 2026 17 Minutes

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